Ko te Whakataurite he Kaituru. Tapahia.

Mai i te ahua o o tatou reka tae noa ki te awhiowhio o o tatou tapumati, he hohonu te tangata, tata tonu ki te kore e mohiotia. I roto i nga wa katoa o te wa, i roto i nga miriona miriona o nga hua manu kua whakatohia ka mahia ... he kotahi noa koe: he miiharo te miihini, kaore e taea te whakahoki, taketake, me ... tua atu whakataurite.

He whaihua nga tauira hei mahi. He maama era ka kapua ana te whai i te moemoea; he tohu enei mo te kaha me te makutu. Engari ko te whakaari he whenua uaua. He hoa taku, he kaitito pakiwaitara, he kaituhi mohio hoki ki tana ake mana, i kii mai ki ahau i tetahi wa ka hiahia ia hei "Kanata Anne Lamott. " Ka ki atu au, "He aha koe te noho ai hei ao noa?"

Me tino maia tatou ki te kore noa iho engari ki te hiahia tatou ki te mohio he aha te mana pono.

Ko te Whakataurite he mahi haurangi. Ka takatakahia e te kaha me te pono me nga mea pai katoa kua pa ki a koe mena kaore koe i te tino pukumahi ki te tuku atarangi me nga taangata e pai ake ana koe. Ka taea e koe te whakataurite i te hukarere ki te hukarere hei whakatau ko wai te mea ataahua ake, motuhake hoki? Kaore e rua nga hukarere hukarere he rite.

Ko te Whakataurite he punga pahekeheke ki te hae, a, i te nuinga o te wa, ka pau te kaha o te hae ki te whakauru ki taau e hiahia ana, ki te arotau ranei i nga mea kei a koe. He mahanga. I hae ahau ki nga peepi moni-whakawhirinaki me oku hoa me nga matua whai rawa. "Poor me ... no leg-up, whanau i roto i te whanau toharite, me hanga e au ake." Yuck He moumou i te waahi hinengaro - {mokowhiti} waahi ka taea te whakakii i te mahi auaha me te mohio.

Na koinei te tikanga whakaputa-herekore hei awhina i a koe ki te mutu te whakataurite me rewa hae:

1. Kaua ki te whakatairite, whakaarohia. Whakaarohia kei te hiahia koe ki te ahua e hiahia ana koe: angitu, ngingila, koreutu toi, whenua, hauora, honohono. Koina ra. Kaore koe i te whakaheke i a koe i tetahi atu ranei - he ngawari noa iho koe te tuku whakaaetanga ki a koe ano ki te hiahia ki taau e hiahia ana.

2. Manaakitia te hunga e hae ana koe. Ko te tangata whai rawa, angiangi, i te aroha, maia, iwi kaha. Tere atu i taau e kii ana "Ko taku hiahia me penei au," me ki atu ki a koe ano, ki te - {panui} me tino pai ake - {panui} ki a raatau, "Te huarahi e haere ai ... he ataahua to ahua ... he whakamoemiti ahau ki a koe."

Na te hae i te ara, ka nui ake to waahi mo to rangatira ki te haere whakamua.

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