He pehea te Paanga o To Tirohanga mo te Marena ki o Whanaungatanga

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Hou nei, Angelina Jolie i kii i roto i tetahi uiui kaore ia i whakaaro ka aroha ia.

"I te mea i ahu mai koe i te kainga pakaru - ka whakaae koe he ahua pakiwaitara etahi mea, a kaore koe e rapu ana," ka whakamarama ia. Ana, ko te tikanga, i tutaki ia Brad Pitt, a ko te toenga ko te whakaputa, te whakatipu, me te hitori whakahoahoa. Engari na tana tirohanga anti-aroha i awhina, i whara ranei i ona tupono i te wa harikoa?

Mena i haere mai koe i tetahi kaainga pakaru ana he raru ranei i roto i to hitori o te whanaungatanga, he mea noa kia kore e aro ki te pono, e kii ana a Danielle Dowling, Ph.D., he kaiako hononga whanaungatanga i Los Angeles. "Ki te whakakorehia e koe to mataku me te kore e tātari, ka raru pea koe."

Engari mena ka hoki whakamuri nga hononga ki era atu mea o to koiora, kei a koe ranei te "Kaore au he tangata marena" (me te pono o ou whakaaro), ka taea e to hinengaro te awhina i te momo hononga e hiahia ana koe , e ai ki a Vicky Barrios, he kaihaumanu hononga-a-New York. Mena kaore koe e aro ki te whaainga mutunga, ko te mutunga ka piri koe ki tetahi na te mea ka hiahia koe ki te taha o raatau, e kii ana a Barrios. Ko te taatai ​​i nga taangata rereke, te tirotiro i te ahua o te noho takitahi, te whai hoa taane-roa ranei, nga huarahi katoa ki te rapu he aha te mea pai maau, kaua ki te mahi i taau e whakaaro ana me mahi koe. "No nga wa tata nei kua titiro te tangata ki te marena hei waka mo te tipu hapori me te whakawhänui i te taha wairua. I nga tau tata nei, ko te marena te nuinga o nga umanga a-iwi, ohaoha hoki," te whakamarama a Dowling.

Ko te tikanga, ka rite ki ta Jolie e whakaatu ana, ka huri nga kare-a-roto-me nga mahere-a te wa. Me whakaae tonu kia taea - ahakoa ki to whakaaro kei te maarama koe ki to tuunga.

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