Ki te kore ia e kii "E aroha ana ahau ki a koe".

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Mena kua kaha koe ki te whakarongo ki a Juan Pablo puta noa i tona kingitanga Te Paetahi, na tana kore kupu pea i patai koe mo te mutunga o te wa o te po.

Whai muri i a Nikki-te wahine i whiria e ia i a ia i te wa i kowhiria ai-i a ia tonu te kii i te kupu L-ki te kaitoro poikiri o Venezuelan, ka whakautu noa ia, "He tino pai ki a koe." I kii atu ano ia ki a ia he mowhiti taatai ​​kei roto i tana pute-engari kaore ia e whakamahi. Ana kupu tika: "Kaore au i te 100 paiheneti kei te hiahia ahau ki te tono atu ki a koe, engari i te wa ano kei te 100% ahau kaore e hiahia ki te tuku i a koe."

Ahakoa kaore koe e tango he maha rawa he akoranga aroha mai i tetahi whakaaturanga e hamuhumuhu ana i nga kaiwhakataetae puta noa i te ao, ki nga waahi tauhou, ka whara i a raatau ki te kai, inu, me nga ra e whakaatu ana i te peke bungee me te eke hoiho, e kii ana "E aroha ana ahau ki a koe" me te kore whakarongo ki te whakahoki mai he mea e mataku ana te nuinga o tatou.

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"He tikanga noa kia neke nga tangata e rua i nga tere rereke e rua," e kii ana a Tracey Steinberg, he tohunga whakaipoipo no New York City. Engari mena kei "E aroha ana ahau ki a koe," ana kei "E pai ana ahau ki a koe," he rereketanga nui tena. Kia mau, kia whakawhiwhia ki a koe kia rua-marama, korero-ana ka takiuru: Kua mau ia, he nui ake ranei te rereketanga o o korua whakaaro? Ma te mahi i tenei ka whai waahi koe ki te whakatipu hononga engari me kii koe kaore koe e noho ana me te tatari mo tetahi mea kaore pea e tino puta, e kii ana a Steinberg.

I taua wa, kia aro ki ana mahi.Kua whakauruhia koe e ia ki roto i tona koiora? Ka puta mai ia ina hiahia koe ki a ia? Kei te whakaatu koe i a koe ki tona whanau me ona hoa? "Koinei nga tohu kei te aroha te tangata ki a koe, ahakoa kaore pea ia i rite ki te kii," e kii ana a Steinberg. Ko te tikanga, me tika koe ki a koe ano me taau e hiahia ana (a he tangata tera pea ka taea e ia te whakaae ki ona kare-a-roto), engari mena kei te aroha to hoa, ka hiahia pea koe ki te whakaroa atu ki a ia. whakaae nui.

I pehea to whakaaro mo te Paetahi te mutunga? Kua tae atu ano ki a koe tetahi taangata kaore i te kii "I love you" ki a koe? Korerohia mai ki a matou i roto i nga korero i raro nei, tweet mai ranei @Shape_Magazine.

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