Ace To "Where We Met" Korero

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Meg Ryan a Tom Hanks hanga hui ipurangi rite reka-whaiāipo noa. Heoi, i waenganui i nga tau 1998 He Mera to Oku ana i tenei ra, ko te whakaipoipo tuihono kua whiwhi rep he kino. A hi‘o na i te hoê maimiraa i maoro a‘enei: Ua itea mai i te feia maimi i te fare haapiiraa tuatoru no Cornell e i te fare haapiiraa tuatoru no Indianapolis e i te tahi mau taime e farerei ai te hoê na hoa faaipoipo, e ite te reira i te huru patururaa i to raua utuafare e hoa no te taairaa. Mena i tutaki nga tokorua i te waahi tuku iho, me kii i roto i te akomanga o te koroni, i te waahi ranei e mahi ana, he kaha ake te tautoko o ta raatau hononga korero mena i tutaki nga tokorua i runga ipurangi. [Tweeti i tenei tatauranga!]

Engari e ai ki te rangahau a te Pew tata nei, kotahi mai i te 10 nga Ameliká kua whakamahi i tetahi raupaparorohiko aipurangi, papaanga ranei, a kei te piki haere te nama. Engari mena he kino koe i etahi wa ki o hoa i haere mai i te kura tuarua, ki to hoa ranei i tutaki ki a Mr. Wonderful i runga i te ohorere, takutai Bahamian, i Central Park ranei (kua mohio koe), kua tae ki te wa whakaaro hinengaro "Ko te mea nui ko te hui ki te ipurangi kaore e whakama." Hei ki ta Laurie Davis, kaiwhakaara mo te Tohunga eFlirt me te kaituhi Aroha i te Paatotanga Tuatahi. "Engari ki te whakatata atu koe mai i tetahi wahi whakama, kaare te iwi e tino harikoa mo koe."

Anei me penei te whakautu i te patai e kore e taea te karo, "i pehea to korua hui?" kia maarama ai to korero mo te hui ki te rom-com.

1. Tuhia te Korero Korero

Te mahi i te haere-ki te hipoki i nga korero-korero i tutaki koe i te wa i toro atu ai korua Ko te Goldfinch i te wa ano-ka taea te hoki mai ki te ngau ia koe. "Kare rawa e puta he pono," e kii ana a Davis. "Ana koina te take kaore te iwi e tino harikoa ki a koe, na te mea kaore te koa o te hononga i te kitea."

2. Tautuhia te Tone

"I a koe e whakamarama ana pehea to tutaki ki tetahi, ahakoa ko hea koe i tutaki, ko nga korero katoa e pa ana ki a koe," e kii ana a Davis. "Ko te whakaaro nui mo te maia o te whanaungatanga i te waa ehara i te waahi i tutaki koe." Kaua ki te kii hipi ki te hanga i to tohu mo te whakaipoipo tuihono i muri i to wehenga kino whakamutunga, whakatauhia to korero ma te korero e koa ana koe ki te whakatuwhera i tetahi pene hou o to koiora me te tarai i tetahi mea rereke-engari ka tutaki ki a ia wiki i muri mai. "Ki te kite koe i to hui mai i te tirohanga pai ki te taha kino, ka rerekee katoa te ao," hei ki ta Karen Ruskin, tohunga hinengaro, me te tohunga hononga. He tuponotanga, ka whakaatahia e to whanau me o hoa nga kare a roto o to whakaaturanga, na whakaatuhia te ihiihi, kaua te whakama.

3. Ite Whakamana

Na roto i te taatai ​​​​i runga ipurangi, kei te kaha koe ki te whakahaere i to oranga aroha-a kaore he mea hei whakama. "Kei te whakamahi koe i te ahunga whakamua o te hangarau kia pai ai te tutaki ki tetahi," e kii ana a Ruskin. I a koe e korero ana i to korero ka taea e koe te whakanui i nga painga o te hui aipurangi-peera me pehea e taea ai e koe te tirotiro i nga taangata paitini ki a koe, ki nga mea ranei kaore i te rite o uara. Korerohia tetahi mea penei, "I mohio ahau e hiahia ana ahau ki tetahi tangata e tino piri ana ki tona whanau," me te whakamarama me te aha i aro mai ai tana ahua ki a koe ka toia tonutia mai koe.

4. Arotahi ki te Korero

Ahakoa i whakauru atu a Match.com ki a koe ki tetahi atu tangata nui, i etahi wa, kua tuimotu o korua tokorua, i tutaki a-tinana, ka haere ki te ra tuatahi. Te arotahi ki tera. "He korero to te katoa," e kii ana a Davis. I timata pea te korero i roto i te karere rorirori tuatahi i tukuna e ia, engari ko te mea i tupu i to raanga tuatahi me nga kaupapa i honoa e koe he wahanga ano o taua korero, e ai ki a ia. Korerohia atu mo nga hononga rereke i mohio koe kua puta ke atu koe i te pekapeka, me pehea ranei to ringihia i te ketchup ki runga i to kakahu 10 meneti ki te tina. Ko te korero ano i to ra tuatahi ka ahei te iwi kia kite i tua atu o te timatanga mariko.

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