I Tamata Te Kaiwhakangungu ki te Tinana Kia Whakama te Wahine Ki Te Hoko I Ana Ratonga
Toka Te Manawa
Ko te ngaro o te taumaha te mea whakamutunga i whakaaro a Cassie Young i te tono a tana hoa mo nga tau e iwa ki te marena ia ia. Engari i muri tata mai i tana whakatairanga i tana whakaipoipo, ko te kaiwhakahaere matihiko 31-tau te pakeke i Te Bert Show ka haere mai tetahi kaiwhakangungu i runga i a Twitter i tuku ki te awhina i a ia kia "whakaara ake," mo tana ra nui.
I te tuatahi, ka whakahē a Cassie, engari ka kaha tonu te tangata ki te akiaki i ana mahi ki a ia. I te mutunga ka tae ki tetahi waahi ka whakama a Cassie ka whakatau ki te whakapuaki i te taunekeneke ki runga Facebook ki te aro ki te whakama o te tinana. (E pa ana: Kei te haere nga tangata ki te Twitter ki te whakapuaki i te wa tuatahi i whakama te tinana)
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"Tena koe mo to whakaurunga," i tuhi te tangata, nana nei tona tuakiri i whiriwhiria e Cassie kia noho puku. I haere tonu ia ma te whakarārangi i ana tohu me te tono ki a Cassie ki te utu i a ia ki te whakaheke taumaha mo tana marena.
I te kore whakaaro, ka whakautu a Cassie: "Kei te pai ahau! Mauruuru nui mo tenei tuku, ahakoa."
He waahi pai tera hei whakamutu i te korerorero, engari i toro atu ano te tangata ki a ia, me te akiaki i a ia kia ngaro te taumaha. (E pa ana: Karekau a Julianne Hough e aro ki te kai kai i mua i tana marena)
"Kei te mohio ahau kei te hiahia koe kia pai ake to ahua i to ra marena," tana tuhituhi. "Ki te kore koe e utu i ahau, utuhia tetahi. Ko era pikitia i tera rau tau. Ka mau tonu aua pikitia ki nga tamariki a au tamariki."
I te ohorere ki te whakautu, ka whakatau a Cassie ki te tu mo ia ake ka korero ki te tangata mo ana uauatanga ki te ahua o te tinana, me te tumanako ka waiho e ia anake. "Kei te mohio ahau he uaua pea ki a koe kia maarama ki tenei, engari kua roa ahau e aroha ana ki toku tinana," tana tuhituhi. "Kei te whakama ahau i nga wa katoa, kei te maumahara ahau he taumaha ahau, me whakama ahau-ka whakama ranei nga tangata ki ahau-he kino noa ranei, ka kiia ahau he 'whakarihariha'. Kua whawhai ahau ki mua i enei mea katoa me te rite ki ahau ano me taku ahua."
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I tere te whakautu a te tangata nei: "Ka taea e koe te whakaae ki to ahua engari kaore koe e koa ki te ahua o to ahua. Kaore e taea e koe te teka ki a koe ano ... Ko taku hiahia kia whakaaehia e te tangata te tinana nui. e kore ratou e harikoa ki o ratou tinana." (He Korero: Kua Mau Te Tumuaki o Te Kura Tuarua Ki Te Tau ki Te Akonga Kia Kore E Mau o ratou Taripoti Te Kore Te Rahi 0, 2 ranei)
Kua nui a Cassie. "Kei te pouri ahau mo koe i te mea kua takaihia to whakaaro ki o ahua," ko tana korero. "He tino maamaa te whakatakotoranga o nga taonga ki to ahua engari kaore koe e marama kaore nga taangata katoa e hiahia ki te mekameka."
I kii ano ia ko ia tonu tetahi o te raru a kaore ia i pai ki te whai waahi ki tana keemu. "Ka paopao ahau ki to whakaaro mo te mahi i runga i te ahua me te ahua, ka awhi ahau i aku whaainga hauora o roto."
Ko te tumanako a Cassie ma te korerorero i tenei korerorero ka taea pea e ia te awhina i tetahi kua hopukia na o raatau awangawanga. "Ko to uara o roto me to utu whaiaro na KOE, ehara i te ahua o to ahua," ko tana tuhi i te taha o te panui. "Ma wai e homai he f**k mena ka whiwhi koe i etahi pauna taapiri. Tekau ranei. Te rua tekau ranei. Toru tekau. Ahakoa he aha. Mena kei te harikoa koe me te hauora, koina te mea nui."