E 5 Nga ara e mohio ai a Taylor Swift kua puta atu ia i te ngahere

Toka Te Manawa

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I te waenganui po i te Turei, te kaiwhakatangi puoro Taylor Swift (me te wahine ngeru extraordinaire) i whakawhiwhia ki ana kaiwhaiwhai ki tetahi ara hou mai i tana pukaemi ka whai ake, 1989, called "Out of the Woods." Ahakoa kaore ia e whakaingoa i tetahi ingoa (ahem, Harry Styles) i runga i te ara synth-taimaha, i korero a T. Swift Kia ora Amerika ko te tikanga o te waiata "hei hopu i te ngoikore me te pakaru o te whanaungatanga."

With lyrics like "Are we out of the ngahere yet? Are we in the clear yet?" Ko te rangi puhoi e whakaatu ana he pehea te ahua o te mamae i roto i te hononga hou. Koina te ahua o te "ihiihi, engari ano hoki, te tino awangawanga me te ohorere o te ngakau miharo," e kii ana a Swift.

He reo mohio? Ko matou hoki. Kaua e manukanuka, Taylor-kua tae katoa tatou ki reira. He mea ngahau te whakawhanaunga ki tetahi tangata e porangi ana koe, engari he uaua i te wa ano. Na me pehea e mohio ai ka "ahuru" tatou i roto i te whanaungatanga? I korero maatau ki a Patti Feinstein, he tohunga mo te whakaipoipo me te whanaungatanga, ki te ako i nga tohu tohu e rima kei te "marama koe."

1. Kaore koe e miharo ana ka waea mai ia.

Tena ki te titiro atu ki to waea i te ra katoa e tatari ana kia puta mai tona ingoa, ka taea e koe te noho me te waatea no te mea ka whakapono koe ka rongo koe i a ia-kei te whai mahere ranei koe. "Hei ki a ia, 'Kia hui tahi tatou a te Paraire. Ka tikina koe e au i te 9,'" e kii ana a Feinstein. Ahakoa kaore o mahere tuuturu, ka waea atu ia, "Kei te pehea to ra?" kia mohio koe kei te whakaaro ia mo koe.

2. Kei te noho humarie koe i te taha o ia.

Kei te mohio koe kua pa atu koe ki te riipii whanaungatanga ka taea ana e koe te noho takitahi me tana whakapaipai, me te manawa o te ata, i to waa-ana he pai katoa ki a ia, e kii ana a Feinstein. Ana ka ngoikore to korero, kaua e tiimata te korerorero mo te rangi-no te mea ahakoa te koretake, kaore koe e peera ki a ia.

3. Kua tutaki koe ki nga whanau a tetahi.

He tohu nui i roto i tetahi hononga, ko te toro atu ki tona whanau he tohu tera pea ka marenatia. Ana kia mahara, ehara ko te whakamatautau noa kia kite mena e pai ana ratou ki a koe, e kii ana a Feinstein. "Tirohia nga whakapau kaha o tona whanau: Me pehea te noho a ona maatua? Me pehea te manaaki a tetahi ki tetahi?" Kei te pirangi koe ki te whakarite kia rite ona uara whanau ki a koe.

4. He pakanga taau-kua raru koe.

He maama noa te noho tahi i nga tiimatanga tuatahi o te putorino, engari ko te mea nui i roto i nga hononga ko te wa e tautohe ana koe-ana ka aro atu koe ki taua mea. "Ka tautohe ano koe a muri ake nei, no reira e hiahia ana koe kia pai te whakawhitiwhiti korero me te eke tahi ki tera taha," hei ta Feinstein. Ahakoa te nui, te iti ranei o te take (me ota Hapanihi mo nga tatau tina), i taea e koe te whakatau-ma te ata noho.

5. Kaore koe i te patai i enei patai.

"Koinei te tohu tuatahi he pai nga mea katoa," e kii ana a Feinstein. Nga paatai ​​penei "Kei te maarama tatou?" haere noa atu ka mohio ana koe i roto i to ngakau ko ia tonu tera, a nui atu i te awangawanga, i te manukanuka ranei, kei te tau te rangimarie.

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