I Tohaina e Sia Cooper tetahi Whakamaumahara Nui Mo Te Whakanuia o te Taumaha

Toka Te Manawa

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I muri i te tekau tau o nga tohu kore korero, he rite ki te mate autoimmune, ka tangohia e te tangata whakakaha tinana a Sia Cooper ona whakakai u i te tau 2018. (Panui atu mo ana wheako i konei: He Tino Mate Whakatoo Uu?)

I roto i nga marama ki mua o tona pokanga tere, kua tino heke te hauora o Cooper. I te taha o te tino ngenge, te ngaro o nga makawe, me te pouri, ka riro ano ia ia te taumaha, na reira ka "whakama" tana korero i mua tata nei.

"Ko te noho ki te kanohi o te iwi kaore i ngawari ake tenei i te mea he maha aku korero e whakaatu ana i taku tino taumaha," i tuhia e Cooper. "I kii mai etahi ki ahau me huri taku kakau ki 'diaryofafatmommy.' "I whakaaro te iwi kua tuku noa ahau i ahau ka kii ahau he kaiwhakangungu whaiaro, kaore au e whakaae kia mahi."

Ko te nuinga o nga tangata kaore i mohio he "tino mate a Cooper i tera wa" o te whakaahua "i mua", ka whakamarama ia. "... i muri tata i te tangohanga o te whakaahua 'i mua', he pokanga nui au ki te tango i aku implants katahi ka timata taku haerenga ki te hauora," ka tuhi ia. (ICYMI, he taunakitanga uaua kei te hono totika nga uau ki tetahi momo mate pukupuku toto.)

Ahakoa te koretake o te wairua i te kino o nga korero kino, i korerohia e Cooper tana korero ki ana akonga kia mohio ai ratau he tino maori te taumaha o te taumaha, ahakoa kei hea koe i roto i to haerenga whakapakari tinana. "He uaua, he koretake hoki ki te noho i te taumaha 24/7," ko tana tuhi. "Ka puta te ora, e tama."

Kei te hiahia a Cooper ki ana kaitautoko kia "tu ka tarai i te hekona ki te whakaaro he aha te take i ngaro ai te taumaha o tetahi" i mua i tana korero mo te tinana o tetahi. "Ki tera tangata e ki ana koe 'kua pau to taumaha!' ki, kei te whawhai pea ia ki te mate pukupuku, ki tetahi atu mauiui ranei ... kei te pouri ranei ratou mo te matenga o te tangata e arohaina ana.Ki taua tangata kua kite pea koe 'tuku kia haere,' tera pea kei te wehe raua, kei te raru ranei te hauora o te homoni e kore e taea e ia te whakahaere," ka tuhia e ia. (Tirohia: Why Body-Shaming Is Such a Big Raruraru me te aha ka taea e koe ki te aukati)

I tenei ra, kei te mohio a Cooper he "pai ake ia i taku i mua atu," na te mea i whakarongo ia ki nga hiahia o tona tinana. "He maha nga mea kua rereke: I whakakorehia e ahau te waipiro, i tangohia e ahau aku implants i mahara ahau kei te mate ahau (kua ngaro aku tohu katoa), ka tiimata ahau ki te yoga, ka hurihia e ahau taku anti-depressant, ka kitea ano e ahau taku hihiri, "i whakamāramahia e ia.

Engari ko te kaupapa matua a Cooper ko te rereketanga o te taumaha tetahi waahanga nga tangata katoa haere, te tikanga karekau he whakama. "Na te mea he kaiwhakangungu whaiaro whaimana ahau ehara i te mea kaore au i te paheketanga o te taumaha," ko tana tuhi. "He tangata ahau. Kare toku tinana e tino tika ana he haerenga tonu tenei, he mahi e haere tonu ana. E pai ana ahau."

I te mutunga o te ra, kaore he huarahi e mohiotia ai te aha o te tangata e pa ana, ana ko te whakaputa korero mo te tinana o tetahi kaore e pai. "He nui te uara me te aro nui ki te taumaha me te ahua i te wa ko te uara pono kei roto i to hauora me to FEEL," ta Cooper. "He nui te taumaha o nga kupu no reira kia tupato me te whiriwhiri i o kupu."

Kare i taea te whakaae ake.

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