Te ahua nei, ko te whakaaro noa mo tetahi e aroha ana koe ka awhina koe ki te whakatutuki i nga ahuatanga taumaha
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Ko te wa e whai ake nei ka raru koe, ka whakaaro koe mo to S.O. ka awhina pea. He rangahau tata nei i whakaputahia i Psychophysiology Ko te whakaaro ko te whakaaro noa mo to hoa i mua i te taumahatanga ka heke to pehanga toto me te noho ki a raua i te IRL. Whakamaoritanga: Kare koe e hiahia he pakihiwi tinana hei okioki-me mohio koe kei a koe te tautoko a to hoa aroha ki te eke i nga wa uaua. (E Paa ana: E kii ana a Matthew Hussey, Kaiako Temekemeke Ka taea e te Mekemeke te Ako I Te Whanaungatanga)
Koia te huarahi i tae ai ratou ki taua whakatau: Neke atu i te 100 nga kaiuru i tenei wa i roto i te whanaungatanga aroha i wehea ki nga roopu e toru: Ko tetahi ka noho tahi me o raatau hoa, ko tetahi ka whakaaro mo o raatau hoa, ko tetahi ka whakaaro mo o raatau ra. . Whai muri i tera, ka toua e ia roopu o ratau waewae ki te wai makariri mo te wha meneti kia puta ai te ahotea, ka whangangahia te taumaha toto me te tere o te ngakau. I kitea e nga Kairangahau ko te roopu e noho taima ana me a ratau hoa me te mea e whakaaro ana mo ratau, i whakaatuhia nga pata o te toto ki te toru o nga roopu. I kii, tera pea he ahua iti ki te noho taima me to hoa i te kikokiko. Ko te roopu i tino whai kiko i a ratou ano te QT i kii mai he iti ake te mamae o te wai makariri i era i whakaaro noa mo te boo. (Hono: Me Whakawhati? Ka kii te Pūtaiao Horoia nga Rihi)
Anei te ahua o te "roopu whakaaro-anake" te whakaputa i o ratou whakaaro, kia taea e koe te whakamatau i te wa e whai ake nei he hakari taumahatanga to oranga: I akohia tenei roopu kia kati o ratou kanohi mo te 30 hēkona me te whakaata i tetahi whakaahua taipitopito o to raatau hoa, o ratou e mahi tahi ana, me te aro nui ki te hanga i te pikitia hinengaro kia ora tonu.
Ana mena he rite to takitahi me te nama taara, kaore he awangawanga-kaore tenei i te mea he mea penapena ma nga tokorua. Ahakoa i titiro tenei rangahau ki nga tangata i noho whakawhanaungatanga, tera pea he maha nga tangata i roto i to oranga ka tautokona koe, ka noho haumaru (hi, Mama!). Na nga rangahau o mua kua whakaatu i te hiranga o te whanaungatanga kore-roomata ki te pupuri i nga taumata ahotea. I kitea i roto i tetahi rangahau ko te whakarongo ki te reo o to whaea he painga ki te whakaiti i te ahotea i te kitenga o ia i a ia ake. E ai ki nga rangahau ka awhina pea te hunga e arohaina ana ki te whakaiti i nga paanga o te ahotea. No reira i te wa e whai ake nei ka raru koe, whakaarohia te noho tahi me te waea, me te whakaaro noa ranei mo tera wa i mahi koe i tetahi mea me to tangata tino pai.