7 Ko nga tohu kaore e tino kitea he Maamaa ia

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He kino ki to tūmau? Ka tirohia ana tuhinga i nga wa katoa? Kaore e taea te mutu te korero mo tana tawhito? Ko nga tohu tohu katoa he hoa aroha kino ia. Engari e whakaae ana nga tohunga mo te taatai ​​he maha nga tohu ngawari ka rite ki nga haki whero nui-mehemea ka mohio koe he aha te rapu. Kia mau ki te titiro mo enei e whitu i to ra tuatahi ka whakaora i a koe mai i te mamae ngakau nui i te huarahi.

He Mihi rawa ia

Kei te mohio koe he ahua wera koe, a ko te "ahuaahua" kei raro ranei i tona manawa "wow" i a koe e hikoi ana i te kuaha he pono. Engari ki te kii tonu ia ko koe te mea tino ataahua, te wahine mohio, te wahine tino pai kua tutaki ki a ia-a kaore ano kia oti i a koe to inu tuatahi - he tohu pea kei te raweke ia, e whakatupato ana a Patti Feinstein, a Ko te kaiako whakaipoipo mo Chicago. Ka mutu, he rawe koe, engari kaore ano ia kia paku mohio ki a koe kia mohio ai ano. "Kei te whakamahi ia i nga mihi kia kore ai koe e tiaki. Ko tana hiahia kia whakaaro koe ko ia tonu a Mr. Right, kia kore ai koe e tino whai whakaaro ki te mea he pai te ahua o te mea ka rite koe ki a ia. d kua heke iho ki te whenua, "ka whakamarama ia.

He Tohu Awhina Atu Nei

Ae, he ahua pai ake i te maka ki raro 10 paiheneti, engari mena ka kohia e ia nga pire nui, ka neke atu ranei i te 20 ōrau mo te ratonga toharite, ehara i te mea pai, ka whakatupato a Feinstein. "Ko te tikanga ko ia he kaikorero. E hiahia ana ia kia rite ki te ahua o te pupuhi nui, me te whakaaro nui ki te ahua o tana ahua i te hononga pono, "ko te whakamarama a Feinstein.

Ka Whakakitea e ia he Poraka te tawhiti atu o te Pae i tana Whare

Akene kua kowhiria e ia he papa inu waipiro maramara, engari me piki ake o antennae mena e tata ana ki te waahi e noho ana ia, e whakatupato ana a Mike Goldstein, kaiwhakaara mo te Kaiwhakaako EZ Dating, he ratonga whakaipoipo no New Jersey. Ehara i te mea ko tana mahere nui ki te whakahoki i a koe ki tona kaainga (ahakoa kei konaa tena i roto i tona hinengaro) he mea ngawari ki a ia, me te kore e whai whakaaro ki to haeretanga, e kii ana a Goldstein. Ehara i te mea nui mena ka tupu ana i te wa kotahi (hey, he pai te pupuri o taua pa) engari mena ko koe tonu te tangata e haerere ana, he tohu tera kei te whai whakaaro ia ki a ia ano.

He Regular ia

Ko te kaihoko pia, te kaituku, me te teepu i te taha o oana e mohio ana ki tona ingoa. He reka pea te ahua, engari tera pea he huarahi mo tona mana whakahaere. "Ehara i te rohe haangai, ka raru koe. Ko te tikanga ka mahi tonu pea ia i tana ahua," e kii ana a Feinstein. Mena ka toia e ia tenei nekehanga, engari kei te pai tonu koe ki a ia, tohe kia tohua e koe te waahi mo te ra tuarua.

Ko ia Badmouths tana rangatira He ra kino to te katoa, engari e whakaae ana nga tohunga he mea pai kia tupato ki tetahi e whakapau amuamu ana mo te nuinga o te ra tuatahi. Ahakoa ka kata koe i ana korero e pa ana ki tana tari kino, ko tana whiriwhiri ki te aro ki te kino he tohu mo te heke o te nuinga o nga korero a muri ake nei, ki te noho tonu koe.

Ka Whakaarohia e ia nga Kopere

I te taha o te korero mo tana frat me te korero i nga mahi nanakia i a ia me ana hoa inu inu, ko te whakahau i nga pu he tohu tera kaore pea ia i te rite ki te noho, e whakatupato ana a Goldstein. He tino harikoa ia ki te noho tahi, engari kare ano pea ia i te rauemi whanaungatanga.

Ehara ia i te mataku

He ra tuatahi tenei, me te tupono noa, ka puta he mea whakararuraru. Engari mena e tino maamaa ana ia mai i te oha tuatahi, akene he tohu tera kei roto rawa ia i a ia ano, e whakatupato ana a Feinstein. "Ko etahi waa rorirori te tikanga kei te putea haumi korua; kei te hiahia korua ki te tuku i to waewae pai ki mua mo tetahi atu," e kii ana a Feinstein.

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